Last updated: August 2026
If you are still serving, you already think about what you put online. This page says plainly what happens to your messages and your service record here — so the claims on the homepage are checkable rather than reassuring noise.
Conversations are end-to-end encrypted. Messages are encrypted on your device and decrypted on your match's device. We hold the ciphertext, not the key — which is why we say we cannot read your messages. It is a statement about what is technically possible for us, not a promise about our intentions.
One consequence worth knowing: because we cannot read your messages, we cannot recover them for you either. If you lose access to your account, that history is gone.
Uploading a DD214 is optional. If you choose it, here is the exact lifecycle:
If you would rather upload nothing at all, verify with your .mil email instead. We send a 6-digit code, you enter it, the badge activates, and no document ever exists on our side.
Service verification is optional, but identity checks are not limited to veterans: every member is identity-checked before they can participate. That is the part that addresses catfishing and romance scams, which is a distinct problem from confirming someone served.
Card details never touch our servers. Payments are processed by CCBill, a dedicated payment provider, and we receive only the subscription status.
If you find a vulnerability, email support@devotionaftervictory.com with the details. We will confirm receipt and keep you updated on the fix.
Related: Privacy Policy · Terms of Service · Anti-Trafficking Policy